In the first part of this powerful talk, Matt doesn’t explicitly “teach” the men anything. Rather, he

invites the men to listen to powerful, moving, and oftentimes hilarious stories. Then, he poses

questions to show the men, or perhaps even to convince them, that who they desire to be, and

who God commands them to be, is in fact the same man. In the second part of his talk, Matt

lays out five rules that every man must break if he wants to fulfill his deepest desires and follow

God’s commands.